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How Emotiony Help You to Deal With Stress

Author: text by albert and images by daniel
Created: 11/29/2023 | Updated: 11/30/2023
Status: updated | 5 min read

Eckhart Tolle's Wisdom, The Profound Truth About Stress

Hey there, let’s talk about Eckhart Tolle, a spiritual teacher and author known for his transformative insights into human consciousness. One of his famous quotes is, Stress is caused by being here’ but wanting to be there.’”

It might sound simple, but it’s incredibly profound. Imagine you’re sitting at your desk, but all you can think about is being on a sunny beach — that’s a recipe for stress!

“Stress is caused by being here’ but wanting to be there’”
— Eckhart Tolle, The power of now 

Tolles wisdom lies in the idea that our minds are often consumed by desires (or ignorance or anger) for a different time or place, causing stress and anxiety. We’re here physically, but mentally, we’re elsewhere, longing for the future or reminiscing about the past. This mental dissonance, this constant wanting to be somewhere other than where we are, is the root of much of our stress and negative emotions.

Stress can often find its roots in a blend of three primary sources: ignorance, desire, and anger. These factors might not act alone; they can intertwine and amplify one another’s impact.

  • Ignorance: One significant source of stress is our lack of realization about the profound importance of the present moment. When we’re ignorant of the fact that now’ is all we truly have, we let our minds wander into the past and future, creating a disconnect between where we are and where we want to be.
  • Desire: Our desires can be another key player in the stress game. We often stress about wanting something — a better job, a bigger house, more money — which seems out of reach at the moment. This yearning for what’s there’ while we’re here’ can be a potent source of stress.
  • Anger: And then, there’s anger. When we resist the reality of the present, often because it doesn’t align with our desires, frustration and irritation can take over. This resistance and anger can significantly contribute to stress.

Eckhart Tolles wisdom highlights the interconnectedness of these factors. It’s not always one or the other; often, it’s a blend of ignorance, desire, and anger that brews up our stress and negative emotions. Understanding this interplay can offer valuable insights into our own mental and emotional landscapes.

Contents

  1. How ignorace causes stress
  2. How desire attracts stress
  3. How anger triggers stress
  4. Emotiony, A Tool to Uncover Stress Roots, Navigate Emotional Drivers
  5. Final Thoughts

How ignorace causes stress

Stress is caused by being 'here' but wanting to be 'there'Stress is caused by being 'here' but wanting to be 'there'

Let’s paint a vivid picture of a modern woman’s life. She’s juggling a multitude of responsibilities - caring for her family, excelling at her job, nurturing her personal growth, and even making time for self-care, including maintaining her appearance. In this fast-paced world, it’s a common scenario. Now, let’s explore how these tasks often interplay with the themes of ignorance, stress, and priorities.

Imagine this woman, caught in the whirlwind of her daily life. She feels the pressure to excel at work, be a loving parent, and look her best, all at once. Ignorance creeps in when she underestimates the time and effort each task demands. She might think she can skip her self-care routine or hastily complete her work tasks without consequences.

How ignorace causes stressHow ignorace causes stress

However, the reality is that ignorance can lead to added stress. She ends up feeling overwhelmed and drained, constantly striving to meet unrealistic expectations. In this hustle, she might also overlook the importance of setting priorities.

When she takes a step back and reevaluates her approach, it becomes clear that focusing on what truly matters and managing her time effectively can alleviate stress. By understanding the significance of each task, she can prioritize and allocate her time accordingly. Embracing this wisdom, she can achieve a healthier work-life balance and find more joy and contentment in her daily routine.

In essence, this woman’s story encapsulates the challenges many face in the pursuit of balancing multiple responsibilities. It highlights the importance of addressing ignorance, setting priorities, and managing time wisely to reduce stress and lead a more fulfilling life.

“When you find yourself stressed, ask yourself one question: Will this matter in 5 years from now? If yes, then do something about the situation. If no, then let it go.”
―Catherine Pulsifer”
— Catherine Pulsifer, @wordswisdom 

How desire attracts stress

How desire attracts stressHow desire attracts stress

Desire, often accompanied by attachment, is a potent source of stress, often stemming from our longing to be in a different place or situation than where we currently are. Let’s paint a common scenario: you’re at work, and all you can think about is being on a beautiful beach, far away from your desk. You desire that idyllic setting, and the more you dwell on it, the more your current surroundings appear mundane and unsatisfying.

This discrepancy between where you are and where you want to be fuels stress. Your heart races, frustration builds, and your work performance may suffer as a result. It’s as though your desires transport you to that distant beach, creating a mental chasm between reality and your yearning.

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Furthermore, desire often involves wanting things that may seem unattainable at the moment, such as a dream vacation or a significant life change. This creates a sense of longing that can lead to stress because the gap between your present circumstances and your desired ones appears insurmountable.

Understanding the role of desire in stress is the first step to finding a sense of peace in the here and now. Learning to appreciate your current situation, even while working toward your aspirations, can significantly reduce stress and allow you to savor the journey as much as the destination.

How anger triggers stress

Social media platforms like Facebook can be breeding grounds for stress, anger, and hatred, often causing users to lose focus on life. For instance, an individual may innocently scroll through their Facebook feed and stumble upon a heated political debate or offensive comments. Such encounters can quickly ignite anger and frustration, drawing attention away from essential aspects of life.

How anger triggers stressHow anger triggers stress

These negative emotions, often perpetuated by online arguments or provocative content, can disrupt a person’s acceptance of different perspectives or just what it is and hinder their ability to focus on the more important and positive aspects of their life.

This is a clear example of how the toxicity of online interactions and an unwillingness to accept diverse views can result in stress and hinder one’s ability to concentrate on life’s meaningful elements.

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Emotiony serves as a valuable compass for deciphering the intricate blend of emotions contributing to stress, whether rooted in anger, desire, or ignorance.

Upon identifying these emotional drivers, individuals can reach into their toolbox of emotional tools. This allows for the precise selection of the most suitable emotional strategies to address each specific issue effectively.

By skillfully employing these tools, individuals find themselves on the path to mental peace and balance. Emotions, once unraveled and managed, no longer hold sway over one’s well-being. This newfound emotional equilibrium fosters a non-emotional state where clarity thrives.

From this place of clarity, the haze of stress dissipates. With a clear mind, solutions become apparent, and the steps toward resolution become evident. Emotiony thus provides the means to navigate the complex terrain of emotions, ultimately guiding individuals toward mental serenity and a profound understanding of their emotional landscape.

“Calmness is the cradle of power”
— Josiah Gilbert Holland, American, novelist 

Final Thoughts

Eckhart Tolle's Wisdom: The Profound Truth About StressEckhart Tolle's Wisdom: The Profound Truth About Stress

Understanding the wisdom of Eckhart Tolle and the interplay of ignorance, desire, and anger reveals the roots of stress. These emotional intricacies contribute to our daily struggles. We must decipher them to find clarity and resolution.

In a fast-paced world, a woman’s multifaceted role exemplifies the stress-inducing challenge of balancing responsibilities. Ignorance often underestimates the effort required, leaving her overwhelmed. Prioritizing tasks becomes essential, as focusing on what truly matters fosters a healthier work-life balance. In the virtual realm, social media platforms like Facebook can fan the flames of stress and anger. Accepting diverse perspectives is crucial to avoiding unnecessary strife.

Emotiony offers a compass to navigate these emotions. Identifying their drivers helps manage stress and attain emotional equilibrium, resulting in mental peace and clarity.

From this state, solutions emerge, empowering individuals to resolve emotional dilemmas. Emotiony’s tools lead to mental serenity and a deeper understanding of the emotional landscape

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